Free Windows

A week ago a guy knocked on our door…I was upstairs when he knocked so by the time I came down and opened the door he was half way back down the sidewalk.

He was obviously selling something and quickly turned around to make me the pitch.

This guy was part of a home renovation company, specifically exterior stuff, gutters, windows, etc.  There’s A LOT of renovation going on in Nashville.

I’m always curious to hear someone’s sales pitch, so I let him throw it at me.  Although I was absolutely skeptical, duh.

“Have you heard of our company before?”

“No”

“That’s because we don’t spend money on advertising so we can pass that savings along to our customers”

“Cool”

We got into a conversation specifically about windows and what it would take to replace mine.  He was pushing hard.  And then a little too hard…

“With the windows we install, you end up saving so much on your energy bill within two years that its the equivalent of getting free windows”

OK hold it. Like I said before, there’s lots of renovation going on in Nashville and lots right in our neighborhood.  If there was a company giving away free windows, I would have heard about it, EVERYONE would have heard about it.  EVERYONE would have been talking about this company.

I would have heard of this guys’ company before and already have had his free windows installed in my home.

Free windows would be awesome. 

But it was the words “free windows” that made me move the conversation towards completion and sending him back down my sidewalk.

Homeboy was desperate and was ready to say anything to get a sale.  Gross.

But the true moral of the story…discernment is knowing when to just stay upstairs and let the opportunity that is knocking just pass on by.

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Artists Hire Teams To Complain About Them

There are many artists who seek to put a team together so that they have other people to blame when things go badly.

When you’re alone and a project fails, you blame the public for “just not getting it”…but at least deep down you know the responsibility was on you.

With a team, a lot of artists forgo even that deep down responsibility.

It’s my managers fault. The label didn’t do enough.  The PR was terrible.  THEY are the reason for my failure and sadness…I mean, I hired them to make this thing successful and they didn’t do their job.


How do I know that subconsciously artists want a team in order to have someone to blame?

Because most artists don’t know what to do once they have a team…other than complain about it.

They decide it feels better and is less risky to complain about the team, rather than leading it.

It’s safe and everyone will agree with you and give a sympathetic pat on the back as you gripe about so-and-so isn’t doing their job and they’re holding up the rocket ship.


You hired so-and-so. So either lead them or fire them.

But you won’t fire them cause it FEELS SO GOOD to be able to tell your pals you have a warm body filling the manager/agent/label/pr seat.

And you don’t lead them because you don’t want to step on anyones toes. You’re afraid of being bossy, of being too this or too that.

Aren’t you tired of this cycle yet?

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Band Body Slamming

If you haven’t experience literal body slamming from your bandmates, you’ve certainly experienced the mental, emotional, relational version of it.

All of this so wonderfully depicted in this video.

There is nothing like a band.  There are two main elements that, in tandem, make it unique to anything else.

Time together, and releasing things during that time.

Time.  You spend so much time together.  An odd amount of time.  And with the time comes the strangest, lowest, highest events imaginable.  You go through so much TOGETHER.  It’s obvious why John wanted Yoko there…because that connection of BEING there is everything.  Multiply this by 2 or 5 or 7 years and thats a lot of shared experience.

Releasing stuff.  Not only is there the connection of time, but then you are collectively releasing creativity into the world…your songs.  The vulnerable, emotional, intimate, spiritual, mental rollercoaster that each individual goes through when birthing music into the world (while still being a part of the group), is a connection unique to bands.  Other groups of people with other types of jobs may release a project or two together, but nothing like a band.

Bands have a soul.  There’s nothing more romantic.  It’s a mystery.  Not to be solved, but participated in.

Onward. 

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Things That Make Artists Feel Good

Nice hotel lobbies

Standing ovations 

Getting paid extra

Hearing your song on TV or radio

Seeing a line outside the venue

Clean transportation

Getting a text from someone who is hearing your song somewhere

Cables that aren’t tangled 

Getting asked back

When the front row knows the words

The manager saying “Here’s what I’ve been working on…”

Not having to be responsible for your own Sharpie

Compliments on a specific song

Free good food

Leaving for a tour

Coming home from a tour

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Go Make That Money Honey

Making money probably wasn’t what stimulated your passion to create music for a living.

But over time, NOT making money will certainly deplete it.

A little jingle jangle in your pocket keeps the artist-boogie-man from creeping in so often.

The romanticism of the struggling artist only lasts so long, and then it turns into the jaded artist…I’ve seen a million times.

Making money has to be a part of your plan…not part of your hopes…part of your plan.

That said…if your burned out, you might actually be tired of writing songs, done performing, the depressed artist…or you might just need some money, honey.

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Making Your Audience Happy And Upset

What is something you could do that would make the people who listen to your music very happy? 

What is something that would really upset them?

Your audience is an entity to be known.  It has likes and dislikes in regards to you.

A lot of artists act like they know their audience but don’t really know their audience.

Asking polarizing questions like these can help zero in on your audiences’ identity.

Here’s a few more…

What would your audience like to pay a lot of money for?

What would your audience not even take for free?

What does your audience want to hear you say?

What will your audience ignore if you say it?

If you want to dig into your audience further, consider this

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