Easy Work For Easy Money

We need these things to go over there. 

Great! I can move these things over there.

Easy enough, sounds like easy money to me. 

And it’s true. But then after few times of moving these things over there something else happens: easy isn’t so great, easy is boring.  And doing boring work kinda sucks.

But we keep doing it cause at least boring is still easy money. 

It takes a little more time but then later down the line easy money becomes “not even worth it anymore”.

In the short term we’re willing to convince ourselves easy work for easy money is worth it. And maybe in the short term it is. (In fact, when the light bill needs to be paid, it definitely is!)

But come on…Easy work for easy money is out. Specialized, personal, fulfilling work that serves the world around you is in…and over time people will give you certificates of appreciation (money) for that work.

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The Waiting Game

We wait for the call back about the show

We wait for the email back about the label

We wait in the greenroom to go on stage

We wait to hear back from the production company about the video

We wait for people to get it

We wait for more people to get it

We wait to put out the record

And we’re always waiting to hear back from…

I’ve found that in this business we are always waiting on something, or lots of things.  

I’m tired of waiting.  Aren’t you tired of waiting?

It’s time to stop playing the waiting game.

It’s time to let the waiting happen, let the waiting do it’s thing, while working on the things that need to be worked on.

Sure, waiting has it’s place, but its appropriate place is much smaller than we usually allow it to be.

Stop waiting for the waiting to end.

It’s time to be fully alive while waiting.

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When People See You They Think About You

When people see you they think about you.

Now, the opposite…When people don’t see you they don’t think about you…is definitely not true.

However if people haven’t seen you in a while it’s not a bad idea to come out and say hello.

“The right place at the right time” usually comes from (re)connecting with someone and then that connection puts you at the top of their mind when the “time” comes.

People think about a lot of things, with the thing most often thought about being (or is certainly influenced by) what is right in front of them…

So it might be worth getting in front of them.

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My Pepsi Application

In college we were all looking for the highest hourly paying job where they would also accommodate our full-time student/full-time broke musician schedules.

I decided to roll the dice at the Pepsi bottling plant over by the Guitar Center.

Now this was more than a few years ago but the Pepsi application process was completely online…so I could apply comfortably in my undies at my friend Dan’s computer.

Now there were a LOT of questions on that application…kind of a job application and personality test all in one.

Mid-way through the personality test part, two of my roommates graciously volunteered their services to help get me through the duration of the application.

What nice guys.

I felt with the power of three broke musicians I was sure to be bottling the other Cola by the end of the week at the very latest.

There were a series of about ten statements where I was to select A) Strongly agree  B) Agree  C) Neither agree nor disagree  D) Disagree  E) Strongly disagree

So we’re all sitting there and the next statement comes up…

“Sometimes I feel lazy.”

Immediately I voted (why I am voting on my own application?) I choose A or B.  Because who doesn’t FEEL lazy? It’s not like it says “I always feel lazy” or “I AM always lazy”. That words “sometimes” and “feel” were important to note.

Come on guys (who told me to answer E), it doesn’t mean I put action to the feeling of laziness.  It’s just that, yeah, at a minimum sometimes I, along with all other humans, do indeed feel lazy. 

I don’t need to be ashamed of this, and the people at Pepsi will definitely appreciate my honesty and the fact that I understood the true meaning of the statement on the application.

Dan and Adam hemmed and hawed that I should put E because I would be telling Pepsi I’m a lazy person, and therefore not get the job.

The answer I was really going to put was B, but just to up the ante and spite my dumb roommates I put A.

I didn’t get the job.

I think it was because they knew I was shortly destined for superstardom and didn’t want to take the time to train me…but my roomies swore it was because I answered the question incorrectly.

Years later here are some thoughts…

Sometimes I DO feel lazy, tired, uninspired, and distracted.

And what Pepsi likely assumed is sometimes true…Sometimes I act on those feelings. Duh.

But what I’ve found is when laziness or tiredness find us…we simply have to bring it with us to the work.

No need to get over it, no need to constantly dissect it, no need to meltdown…just bring it with you.  

Tell your tiredness to come with you.  Demand your laziness sit right next to you as you do the work.

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Next Time You’re With The Gang

Here are a few questions worth thinking about and bringing up next time you’re with the gang…

If your show had a topic what would it be? 

What do you devote most of the time on stage to?

In an ideal setting, what is the audience physically doing during your last song?

*The conversation is probably just as important as the answers.  And the good thing is, while answers aren’t guaranteed, the conversation is.

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I Should Eat More Vegetables

I know I should eat more vegetables

And run more

And sleep more

Those are pretty universally accepted principles that everyone KNOWS.

But knowledge isn’t enough.  I wish it was.

It’s not as much about what you know as what you’re willing to DO.

The internet has given us endless rabbit trails of great information, of things we can know.

But knowledge without action is like making Michael Jordan circa 1997 sit down and explain to you how good he is at basketball…

The real answers are in movement, action and experience.

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