for opportunity.
Some money, some time, some energy.
If you earmark some extra for unexpected opportunities, you’ll be in a much better position to engage the opportunities.
When money and time and energy are tight it’s a lot more difficult.
Earmarking and setting aside time or money or energy takes work…you guessed it, it takes time money and energy.
The cry of many a performer.
If you’re not worried about your shirt it’s your hair or your teeth or your hips or a mole or your height.
You get on stage DESPITE knowing that someone in the crowd just might think you picked the wrong shirt.
Shirts are like band names…they will bend to the character and presentation of the person donning them.
First Monday of the month, new Hum Love playlist on Spotify and Apple.
There’s a reason the after dinner mint gets eaten after dinner and not before.
If you had it beforehand the minty flavor messes with the main course. There’s less enjoyment of the mint, less enjoyment of the dinner.
But after dinner is right where it needs to be.
Similarly…when putting together a playlist or an album or a setlist, what came before this song and what comes after this song have a lot to do with how this song will be perceived and enjoyed.
Every song starts off as a new song. Even the great ones. And new songs are the least familiar.
Your fans have a long, trusted, storied relationship with your old material…so it’s not that the new song isn’t great or that it isn’t better than the old stuff…it just needs a little time to percolate.
New could mean bad. New could mean great. Give them time to figure it out.
When you have to hit the high note at the end of the song, the only thing you’re thinking about the whole song is having to hit that note.
If you’re on stage afraid of not hitting the note, there’s a good chance you’re not gonna hit it.
If you’re in the rehearsal room four weeks before the tour afraid you’re not gonna hit the note four weeks from now…you have plenty of time to go from afraid of the note to indulging in the note.
You’re gonna think about the big note either way. But you get to choose what you think about it.
I went to a university that has a good music school. I did not attend music school. I went to the business school…
But I had a lot of friends who went to the school of music.
And here’s something interesting…
During my four years I didn’t know of any music students who dropped out or flunked out.
But by four years post graduation? The large majority of them weren’t doing music anymore.
So why does the pendulum swing from such fierce commitment to such easy resignation? Two reasons that blend together…
Goals and Support
Everyone in the school of music has the same goal(s). Pass ear training, put on a good junior recital, meet the required number of practice hours, put on a great senior recital, get passing grades, make mom and dad happy they spent (or let you spend) an absurd amount of money on this degree.
And because everyone knows everyone around them is going through the same thing it’s easy to give support and find support. So it’s fun. It’s difficult but everyone can complain together and study together and go to each others recitals.
But the real reason for the abundance of support is that there is no perceived threat that by you reaching your goal I might not reach mine…and this is a seismic difference between the college music experience vs. pursing a professional music career.
So for four years in college you’ve got a clear goal and full support. What a gift.
Post college, the clear goal evaporates. And anything that might resemble a goal is now viewed through the lens of competition. If you get the call for the gig that means I don’t get the call. Zero sum. True support becomes much more elusive.
And as more of your friends stop doing music, the glue that binds you to this music quest gets less sticky. When all your friends are (at a minimum) actively engaged in a similar path there is a sense of communal support even if it isn’t stated.
So after college, with no clear vision (they don’t teach you vision in the school of music) and a dwindling support system…it doesn’t come as a surprise that so many drop out of the business.
It’s unlikely you’ll quit something that has clear goals and an abundant support system.
If you want to keep doing what you’re doing…build those two things.