How Long Does It Take To Get Good?

When we first set out we didn’t set out to get good…we simply set out. And there was enough joy and curiosity to keep going.

Soon enough we saw that others could do things we wanted to do that we couldn’t do yet. Again the joy and curiosity kicked in and we got better.

Then real jolt comes when we see that getting better starts equating with getting more attention. So now we definitely want to get better.

And then something else pops up…

The frustration started creeping in when other people were getting the attention we now desperately sought for ourselves…regardless of how good any of us were.

So I don’t know how long it takes to get good but it only takes about thirty minutes to get a little better.

But here’s the real thing…

Do you want to be good or do you want attention? Different paths. Sometimes they cross. It’s hard to focus on both.

 

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Trailblazing

It’s scary to wait for the others to catch up or to catch on…because you look behind you and can’t see them yet.

You’ve been blazing a trail with what you do but are they coming? Ever? How long is it going to take? How many of them will there be? Is this gonna be worth it?

This is one of the hard parts of trailblazing. The good news is that when the others finally catch up, they’re going to be really glad they found you.

 

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The Dance Floor

Everyone knows what that area is all about. It’s the center of attention.

When there’s a dance floor everyone picks their proximity to it on purpose.

The middle of the dance floor. The edges. Just off the edges. To the left or right. Standing way in the back. Sitting nearby. Over by the drinks. Right up against the stage. Right up against the speakers. The parking lot. Everything in between.

And wherever they end up they’re pretty pleased with their decision.

Sounds like a pretty good night for everyone.

 

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Why Will Your Belief Hold Up?

Is your belief and determination strong enough to survive the inevitable discouragement, disappointment, doubt and criticism that are coming your way?

You know the discouragement is coming but it’s hard to know if the belief will hold up through the dark moments.

What is it that will entice and incite you to keep going?

 

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Water At The Bluebird

People line up to get into the Bluebird Cafe in Nashville a couple hours before it opens each evening. And in the summer it gets hot.

So each afternoon, before the line starts, the staff put out one of those big orange water dispensers on a stool with a bunch of cups…and then go back to work. As thirty or forty people are lining up and baking in the Nashville humidity they can at least stay hydrated.

It’s a great idea…and the Bluebird doesn’t have to do that but they do anyway because it takes care of a problem.

But it could go wrong and it doesn’t scale.

What if a thousand people get in line? The water dispenser would have to be twenty water dispensers and a few employees monitoring the station. Too much work, let’s not do the water thing at all. But there isn’t a thousand people…there’s a few dozen.

The Bluebird is surrounded by other businesses and foot traffic…the cooler will probably get stolen or graffitied or tipped over by teenagers. It’s best to not put it out at all. But it doesn’t get stolen or abused.

What if a weird bug somehow gets in the water and someone gets sick from the Bluebird water cooler? The liability expenses could be off the charts. The historic venue could go bankrupt. But this type of worry only comes from the camp of ‘hey anything is possible’.

Sometimes the present problem needs to be addressed and solved simply by solving it for the present. Not having endless meetings about the what-ifs. Not running through all the hypotheticals. Not putting it to a vote. Not worrying about if it’s a forever fix.

Just take care of it. It might not work for everyone but it works for you. And in your world that might be enough.

So if you head down to the Bluebird this summer…go for the show, go early for the water.

 

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Before I Had A Bass...

I started a band.

It was a three piece. And between the three of us we had one guitar and one snare drum. That seemed to be enough. On top of that we figured out a way to make our own lighting gels so that we could turn the basement lights blue or red (or stack them together and make purple).

Early on I had a sense of what it meant to be in a band, the power of a band, the majesty of a band…I wasn’t going to let instruments get in the way.

Once we’d secured the identity of a band we knew the instruments weren’t far behind, along with the songs and the shows…after all, that’s what bands did…and we were in fact a band.

The identity is what drove the action. And when operating like this, all the actions make sense.

Action with no identity is when we get lost and without even realizing it.

 

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