Hindsight Voice: I Wish I Woulda Said...

We’ve all replayed conversations in our heads and come up with what we should have said in hindsight.

After doing this a few thousand times you might find that your hindsight voice has a theme and a tone.

My guess for most of us, the theme is often clarity and the tone is often confidence.

So how do we move our hindsight voice up closer to our real time voice?

By practicing and doing it wrong and having to apologize and trying again. Eventually, instead of the hindsight voice showing up five minutes after the conversation, it starts showing up after a ten second pause DURING the conversation.

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Getting The Band Together

You don’t have to be the best musician to start the band.

You don’t have to be the fastest player to get the team together.

You don’t have to give the most money to get the fund raiser going.

Often times the best musicians, fastest players and deepest pockets lack the skill or time or effort to go first, to initiate, to rally the people.

But once YOU get the thing going, they’re thrilled and eager to join in. Go first.

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You Belong There

In all likelihood, if you’re there you belong there.

So the feeling that you don’t belong, the feeling of being an imposter, the feeling of being the fake…it’s important to couple that feeling with the fact that most of the time it isn’t true.

And leaning into the truth that you belong wherever you are frees you up to make a bigger difference and have a better time.

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Cave Paintings

It’s hard to identify with people and cultures from thousands of years ago.

But when I think about the people making the cave paintings…trying to make it great, trying to tell a story, trying to make something cool, trying to get the lines in proportion, trying to make something to show the people around them, worried that none of this will work out…

…not much has changed for an artist from then till now.

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Drive and Opportunity

Starting out there’s a lot of drive and not a lot of opportunity.

Then for those who are skilled and lucky and determined enough to climb to the top of the mountain, the other side of it often looks like…a lot of opportunity and not a lot of drive.

»» It’s easy to blame others for a lack of opportunity…pretty tough to blame others for a lack of drive.

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Four Shorts

Don’t forget to wonder rather than looking up the answer.

Starting is hard but it takes a little while to get to the hard part.

We add fake urgency to things in order to feel important.

People think dopamine is after you click, it’s before you click.

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