Stolen Gear

A bunch of years ago I lived with the guys I was in a rock n roll band with.  Along with a few others. There was seven of us total.  It was totally awesome.

Back in those days we were touring a lot on the weekends.  Leaving town Thursday or Friday and getting back late Sunday night.

One particular Sunday night we got back to Nashville late and we were all super tired, so we unloaded all the gear into the garage and went to bed.

We usually would load the gear into the house.

We usually would remember to close the garage door at night.

There was usually always someone awake in that house!

We got all our gear stolen that night.

Guitars, pedal boards, amps, gone.  Nice stuff too.

There’s a couple more chapters to this story (very crazy and entertaining, as we almost got the gear back…almost), but here’s the saving grace…

We had insurance.

We were each spending $12.50 per month to have $10,000 worth of gear coverage.

We might have been poor musicians and definitely weren’t the sharpest knives in the drawer, but we paid a few bucks for insurance and it made all the difference.

The subsequent month of touring we had to borrow gear from friends, but after that we all got insurance checks and got to go shopping.

You need to go get Music Pro Insurance.  Now.

Do it.

Do not leave this email without clicking the link and purchasing the insurance.

I would climb through the computer and do it for you if I could.

You need this.

Music Pro Insurance

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Shows You Should Say Yes To

If you haven’t played 150-200 shows, say yes to everything.

If you have played 200 gigs…

Only say yes to the shows that you’ll give everything to.

Only say yes to the shows that it’s worth to hire the good players for.

Only say yes to the shows that you’re actually going to care enough to lead the crowd.

Only say yes to the shows that it make sense to bring your sound guy (who, right now you only bring sometimes…..if the show isn’t important enough to bring your sound guy who makes you sound good, why are you playing it?)

Only say yes to the shows as they are in accordance with your larger plan.

Only say yes to the shows that aren’t in January.

Only say yes to the shows where you are willing to do something better than you did the show before.

Only say yes to the shows where there will for sure be at least two of the following: great crowd, great food, great money, great exposure, great networking, great weather, great purpose.

Only say yes to the shows that you are willing to own the spotlight of the stage, crank up certain knobs of your personality and character, and whole heartedly embrace the responsibility of serving an audience in the way that only you can.

Otherwise, just say no.

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You’re Already Doing It

If you haven’t found your thing yet, chances are you’re already doing it.  Somewhere.

Somewhere in the smattering of things you do everyday, you’re doing the thing you’re best at.

At least the essence of it.

There’s a gravitational pull to it that you can’t completely escape.

So go grow that, forget about the rest.

Instead of looking around for the thing, look at what you’re already doing.

It might be small right now, but it’s there.  Hiding right in front of you.

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What Your Ideas Need From You

I hear really good ideas all the time.  

Ideas full of true passion, true energy, true talent, true service to others.  And there even might be a certain degree off follow through.

But they don’t lift off the ground.

It’s too bad, cause there were so many good ingredients being put together.  

So what’s the difference between one of these great ideas with so many vital ingredients and an idea that actually has lift off?

The ability to assemble and hire the right people.

That is the difference.

I was invited to a companies Christmas party tonight, and they are that kind of company.

Lots of people and companies have the exact same ideas as this one, but this one has the team, the culture, the unity, the connectedness.

Spend more time hiring the right people.

Spend more time hiring the right people.

Spend more time hiring the right people.

Your great ideas, songs, dreams, goals need you to spend more time looking for and assembling the right team of people around you.

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Don’t Confuse Seriousness With Vulnerability

Van rides, plane rides, bus rides, train rides.

Musicians have a lot of down time on the road.

That time is filled with lots conversation.  About everything under the sun.

Serious conversations about deep things and even serious conversations about simple and stupid things.

Serious conversations are great to have with your band, and bring you closer to one another.

But, relationally, they only take you so far.

Don’t confuse seriousness for vulnerability.

Don’t confuse deep for vulnerability.

Being vulnerable is very different from merely being serious or deep.

You could be talking in the bus at 3am about the political landscape of the heaven as it pertains to the devil, and what exactly happens when you die….super serious, super deep….not necessarily vulnerable whatsoever.

In a band, serious and deep are great and necessary.

But its the vulnerability that brings life, growth and lasting connection.

(And those conversations usually start simple, with something like, “How are you?”)

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Start Paying Attention

Doing things better benefits from learning.  

Learning benefits from remembering.  

Remembering benefits from paying attention in real time.

Paying attention benefits from valuing who you are, where you are, what you’re doing, who you’re with, and why.

So if you don’t know how to do things better…start paying attention.

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