If you haven’t played 150-200 shows, say yes to everything.
If you have played 200 gigs…
Only say yes to the shows that you’ll give everything to.
Only say yes to the shows that it’s worth to hire the good players for.
Only say yes to the shows that you’re actually going to care enough to lead the crowd.
Only say yes to the shows that it make sense to bring your sound guy (who, right now you only bring sometimes…..if the show isn’t important enough to bring your sound guy who makes you sound good, why are you playing it?)
Only say yes to the shows as they are in accordance with your larger plan.
Only say yes to the shows that aren’t in January.
Only say yes to the shows where you are willing to do something better than you did the show before.
Only say yes to the shows where there will for sure be at least two of the following: great crowd, great food, great money, great exposure, great networking, great weather, great purpose.
Only say yes to the shows that you are willing to own the spotlight of the stage, crank up certain knobs of your personality and character, and whole heartedly embrace the responsibility of serving an audience in the way that only you can.
Otherwise, just say no.
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I’m always interested in your perspective, whether affirming or dissenting. Continue the conversation anytime: gabethebassplayer@gmail.com