No matter what, when you walk on stage the spotlights are on you. That’s the deal. That’s what you’ve signed up for.
Now you have a decision.
When you walk on stage, your head can turn into a bowling ball. Hard, dark, non reflective material that absorbs all the light it can and keeps it all for itself. So the very best case scenario is that a bunch of people comment on the bowling ball. But more often, the bowling ball head is just uninviting, boring, and unmemorable.
On the other hand, when you step on stage your head can turn into a disco ball. Where all the light and attention given to it gets reflected back to the entire room, for the enjoyment and community of everyone.
Sure everyone loves a disco ball, but what they really love is what the disco ball provides them…connection to the moment and the people around them because it’s casting beautiful light and vibe around the room making them dance and FEEL something.
The spotlights and attention are inevitable. Do you want to be a bowling ball or a disco ball?
