You show up to the lunch. The other person orders first and then it’s your turn. You say ‘nah, I’m not hungry, I’m good with water’.
What’s wrong with that? What’s the big deal? After all, you scheduled the lunch date in order to talk, so who cares whether you’re eating or not?
Sometimes you just need to order lunch. You’re getting lunch WITH someone. So ordering the lunch is more about the with than the lunch.
