We’re embarrassed of talking about our bad habits because what kind of person would perpetually do something that is negative towards themselves.
We’re embarrassed of talking about our good habits because we think it makes us sound self-righteous, an air of superiority. Also if good habits get talked about, it makes you somewhat accountable for keeping it going, which is scary.
So fine, don’t talk about them.
Just have them.
The good ones, that is.
What habits do you need to start?
What embarrassing, awkward things, things that make you feel out of place do you need to start a habit of doing?
Talking about them will be beneficial and helpful later on, but for now just start them.
Start a good habit.
p.s. This is not a New Years resolution. This is exposing fear and purpose and doing something about it.
I’m always interested in your perspective, whether affirming or dissenting. Continue the conversation anytime: gabethebassplayer@gmail.com