When you are the lead singer, people look to you for the vibe…the vibe of the rehearsal, of the load in, of the gig, of the tour, of the meeting, of the interview.
You can try to skirt it and say, ‘I didn’t ask for that responsibility’…but it doesn’t matter. It comes with the territory.
The lead singer is the center of attention even if (or when) they are not the center of the socializing.
People look to the lead singer for how this thing is gonna go. The lead singer holds sway.
People hope and expect the lead singer will be, in fact, a leader.
So when you are the lead singer step up and lead. Wear the crown and take care of responsibility of the position.